I am sure we will never forget the golden days of college from bunking lectures to 24/7 texting, from uncountable drinking sessions to unplanned road trips but after college does life sounds same… Not so much!!…. Right.
After college everyone has a different story to tell some apply for further studies, some continue the family legacy; some go for corporate world jobs while few of them just take a break.
Here are some reasons why your college buddy might not be your lifetime buddy.
After college family expects from a person to bring their share of the money, share liabilities and in the rat race of earning money one might not have a time catch up with buddies or to make frequent calls or to meet them.
The new job comes with new responsibilities, lots of workloads, new peer group, so basically, priorities change people change. All of a sudden people are busy within their new world and they have no time for their old chuddy buddy because they are “Busy”.
Long distance friendship is hard to maintain because, with zero chances of frequent meetings, text one might feel friendship getting fade away and from being BFF’s to turning out to casual friends things after college takes a complete a 360⁰ change.
Making friends is not a rocket science kind of a thing and people actually do not realize when they replaced their old gang with a new friend circle, daily group texting turn into monthly texts and then further limited to text on birthdays and on occasions.
Now, this is all total a different story after getting financially settled people look for emotional support and they find marriage as a final solution to it. So the time gets divided and priorities change family and work comes first and then somewhere friendship and friends later joins the list.
Now to understand this is not everyone’s cup of tea because everyone is a not born with a silver spoon. People struggle in life to achieve their goals and after college people get busy in building their career they want to make something out of their life and to do so people have to compromise with their friends and family. The family obviously won’t move on but friends will end up replacing them.
Now this one might sound harsh but people actually do this that they join a group just to pass their time and when they are done they don’t give a dam like it actually never happened. So be very particular while selecting who to befriend with better take time and make one better than to regret later.
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